Signs That Reveal Your Relationship Isn’t Worth Your Effort
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Found yourself in a hard situation where you are trying to fix your relationship? We can understand how you feel. Don’t know even from where to start? Is it all worth it? Do you believe in your future? These signs will reveal you the real truth. Don’t worry, you are not alone, many people experience the same circumstances each and every day. But, you just need to do something about it to be free and happy. First of all, you need to hear the real truth about your relationship. Let’s start!
Any kind of abuse
If you are being mentally or even worse-physically abused, no, your relationship won’t get better. We know that love may be blind and that you may think such a person will change with time, but that is just not the truth. If you are experiencing some hard days and constant troubles with that person, you need to break up.
You are the only one who is trying
Preparing your boyfriend’s favorite dinner? Buying roses to your beloved girlfriend? Surfing on the web about your relationship troubles while the other side doesn’t think you have any troubles? If you are the only one who is fighting for your relationship, then we have a bad news for you. It won’t last! Remember, you need a partner.
Your emotions have changed
You don’t find your partner attractive as you used to? What happened? Does he or she stop caring about themselves? Or did they stop caring about you? Rethink your chemistry.
Your friends, relatives, parents…
What do they say? Are you hearing the same things each and every day how you could be with someone better? Your parents won’t lie to you, and neither your best friends will. They are seeing the situation clearly. You are thinking about it emotionally, not objectively. Try to talk with them honestly.
It is just him/her
Your partner doesn’t want to work on the relationship problems, because she or he doesn’t see it as a problem. Maybe your partner has some addictive habit but doesn’t want to change it. You cannot help someone who doesn’t want to help himself or herself in the first place.
You may feel like your days are the same, or even worse, like they are getting more boring. Have you lost your passions? This is not a good sign.
You don’t have a life
Your partner may be possessive or extremely jealous. You cannot even spend time with your friends anymore. What about that soccer training you went for 5 years and now you just can’t? You cannot wear that dress because you will attract someone else? Think about this a bit.
True love is growing together, not being trapped in the same situation which makes you emotionally and mentally tired. Rethink your believes and emotions.
7 thoughts on “Signs That Reveal Your Relationship Isn’t Worth Your Effort”
I’m of the belief that marriage has ups & downs. As long as there is no abuse, and you still feel love, work out your problems!!! The grass is only greener where you water it. So WATER YOUR OWN GRASS at home. Stop being selfish. Everything isn’t always about you. Everyone work on yourselves. You know what you’re doing wrong. Make choices that are conducive for both of you in the relationship. If someone stops careing then it’s really over. Both have to care. Remember love isn’t just empty words. You must show love through your actions.
The best for both of us was to leave this. I never knew I could feel a bliss like this one. I don’t think I can get into another relationship after this.
I’ve learned that it was definitely worth it. Ever since I left my ex, I’ve felt such a huge relief and freedom because I’m not wasting it on him any longer. If he didn’t wanted this to happen, he should have learned to care.
It’s been really hard trying to break up with him and I’ve been looking for whatever opening to really start this conversation with him. I really do not want to be in this any longer.
More people should really take into consideration their happiness and peace of mind. If it doesn’t work out, it doesn’t work out. Find happiness and stability elsewhere.
I’m in this very situation and it is frustrating and annoying. I have to start planning to get out from it.
No one is worth wasting your time. Do what is needed to ensure your peace.